Gay Buenos Aires

I am Luka Nola, a 28 year old gay New Zealander who has travelled the world at least three times and I am currently living and working in South America. I am working on a number of web-based travel and tourism projects and it has been my great privilege to spend the last twelve-months in Buenos Aires.

This section of Buenos Aires Stay’s gay city guide will fast become a directory and notice board (blog) with a difference • all our listings will be reviewed by our clients.  I am afraid that I have some way to go and the first directory pages will not be published until late October. To start the ball rolling, I have decided to give you a flavour of what you can expect and ask you to contact me personally should you want more personalised advice.

Gay Buenos Aires has surprised me. I expected a city that after hundreds of years of social, political and economic turmoil would have seen better days.  I thought many of the less appealing European attitudes and traditions, which criminalised and discriminated against homosexuals, may have prevailed. I suppose my wild imaginings had created some sort of mental time capsule, mainly because many websites sell you ‘old Europe’ in South America.  When I got here, I was over old Europe (until next time of course). 

Apart from the architecture and language, much of the airplay could not be further from the truth • Buenos Aires city is a modern metropolis in need of some TLC, but building for the XXI Century; moreover, Argentineans generally have a much more enlightened view of homosexually and since the mid-part of the XIX century homosexual acts have been decriminalised, giving gays in Buenos a get on with it you ‘poofs’ declaration shouted from the balcony of the wonderfully presidential pink palace.

My most pleasant surprise; I find Buenos Aires the most welcoming gay destination in the world.  It does not have the time-old gay infrastructures, ghettos and mass commercialisation of homosexuals as do other more established gay capitals such as London and New York.  I feel so at home here, in any part of the city, in any restaurant or any bar; being gay in Buenos Aires does not become all consuming part of your life and being. In Buenos Aires you are you first, and gay if someone can be bothered to ask.  In summary, you will find the city has a metro-sexual nature, no gay ghetto and a gay culture, which is not always evident but extends city life.

This is a gay destination for those who want something entirely different. What I hope to do is give you a sense of what makes gay Buenos Aires so different and such an amazing city. There is so much general information about Buenos Aires on this website that I am going to focus solely on the Buenos Gay Aires City Guide and offer you links to other more general reviews written by our team.

In my opinion, it is the portenos that make Buenos Aires a fantastic city for the inspired gay traveller - I find gay portenos more sophisticated, cultured and friendly than their peers I have met in many cities throughout the world, and they are so hopelessly romantic. I never spend long in a bar feeling isolated, portenos make an effort, they are fun, witty, a touch too serious at times, and love to have a good time or set the world to rights with lively discussion.  The alcohol, body and ageist culture that prevails in other cities is not so evident in Buenos Aires.     

I have been told to keep my shallowness to a minimum on these pages, but I have to say it • there is also the ‘wow-factor,’ I get married numerous times just toddling off for milk. I also have to add that my ‘gaydar’ has failed dismally since I arrived. Not all that is pretty, in touch with their more feminine feelings, gives you the time of day or seems to look at you longingly is gay!  So be careful, retune that gaydar for South America.

What you will quickly notice is that portenos Argentina bash as much as the British whinge about Great Britain. When you talk to portenos many wish they could leave Argentina. They crave stories from our homes and cannot wait to travel and increase their knowledge of the world.  You must understand that this is a country that has suffered significant social, political, and economic crisis and although things are better now than they have been for a very long time, people just seem to wait with certain inevitability for the next crash.  This pessimism makes foreign lands a lot greener (we know the truth) to the young porteno.

My experience has taught me to beware those that befriend you quickly and tell you almost by the minute how careful you should to be of their countrymen.  Andrew sets you straight on this website, these people are running businesses within a re-emerging economy, and many feel like they have to profit now to weather the next crash, which history tells them is just around the corner. In 2001 professional classes ate in soup kitchens. If you throw your money around, some portenos will happily take it.  You have a responsibility to buy goods and services well.

I have never witnessed homophobia and the people I meet from all walks of life seem so disinterested in the ‘gay boy label’ that your sexuality becomes a non-issue.  So much so, I see many a gay boy arrive with all the characteristics of modern gay society- you know, the clean cut XX1 century clone, self-conscious, consumed by homosexuality, on their second round of muscle juice and trying too hard- who after  a few months in Buenos Aires find some individuality.  You can really relax in BA.         

You would have already read the hype claiming 1 million plus gay visitors each year, you would have seen the tons of sites and articles on the web claiming that Buenos Aires is now the leading gay destination in South America, and so my objective is to pack our of website with your queer views, but straight advice. I urgently need your emails. Help me make this the best information portal for gay travellers by emailing me and telling it like it is • I will publish those reviews, which are balanced and of interest to our readers • Luka@bastay.com.

Some quick facts:

Some Gay listings:

Gay Restaurants and Gay Bars in Buenos Aires

Chueca                                                                                                                         

Gay restaurant and gay bar with shows
Restaurant - Bar - Predance
Soler 3283
Jue a Sab 20:30 a 2:00
Thu to Sat 20:30 to 2:00
Tel: 4963-3430

Tacla
Gay Restaurant • café and Bar
Charcas 2626
Lun a Dom 19:00 a 2:00
Mon to Sun 19:00 to 2:00
Tel: 4966-1909

Truman
Gay Erotic Bar - Restó
Serrano 1148
Mie a Dom. Desde 18:00
Wed to Sun from 18:00
Tel: 15-4037-9120

Empire
Restó • Gay Bar
Tres Sargentos 427
Tel: 4312-5706

La Farmacia
Restó • Gay Bar
Bolívar 898 (esq. EEUU)
Mar a Dom desde 9.00
Tue to Sun from 9:00
Tel: 4300-6151

Inside
Gay Restaurante - Bar
Bme. Mitre 1571
Tel: 4372-5439

The Titanic Club
Callao 1156
Lun a Dom desde 19:00
Mon to Sun from 19:00
Tel: 4816-1333

Gay PUBS

Sitges Gay Bar
Av. Córdoba 4119
Mie a Dom desde 22:30
Wed to Sun from 22:30
Tel: 4861-3763
www.sitgesonline.com.ar

Bach Gay Bar
Cabrera 4390
Mar a Dom 23:00
Tue to Sun 23:00

Punto Gay G
Shows Strippers
Anchorena 1347
Lun a Dom 23:00
Mon to Sun 23:00
Tel: 4829-0664

Shangay
Arte Gay Bar
Av. Cordoba 4042
Mie a Dom 20:00
Wed to Sun 20:00

Gay DISCOS/ Gay Clubs

Palacio also called Alsina
Alsina 940
Vie desde 1:00
Fri from 1:00
Dom desde 20:00
Sun from 20.00
www.palaciobuenosaires.com                                                                                                    

One of the better gay discos in Buenos Aires • huge space, good bars and lots of cuties, my favourite of the gay clubs in Buenos Aires.

Amerika
Gascón 1040
Vie a Dom desde 1:00
Fri to Sun from 1:00
Tel: 4865-4416
www.ameri-k.com.ar                                                                                                                   

Young, mixed, but predominately gay disco in Buenos Aires. Great fun, good music, not sure the pay and drink all you want policy is either good value or good alcohol and the staff are pretty useless, bit of a dark room going on upstairs- the best gay club in Buenos Aires when you are refreshed and want to get lost in music.

Glam
Cabrera 3046 - Buenos Aires
Jue a Sab desde 1:00
Thu to Sat from 1:00                                                                                                    

Small but interesting gay club in Buenos Aires

Contramano
Mie a Sab desde 1:00
Wed to Sat from 1:00
Dom desde 20:00
Sun from 20:00
Rodriguez Peña 1082
www.contramano.com

Goddess
Disco Pub
Av. Córdoba 4185
Tel: 4861-2961

Vip Club Palacio Buenos Aires
Bulnes 2727
Jue y Sab desde 22:00
Thu & Sat from 22:00

Unna
Suipacha 927 loc 4
Vie y Sab 1:00
Fri & Sat 1:00
(Women)

DARK ROOM

Tom's • gay sex and more gay sex • more of a sex club than bar.
Viamonte 630 (Subsuelo)
Lun a Jue 12:00 a 3:00
Mon to Thu 12:00 to 3:00
Vie a Dom 24 hs.
Fri to Sun 24 hs
Tel: 4322-4404
www.buenosairestoms.com

Gay SAUNAS in Buenos Aires

A full - Gay Sauna Buenos Aires
Viamonte 1770
Lun a Jue 12:00 a 3:00
Mon to Thu 12:00 to 3:00
Vie a Dom 24 hs
Fri to Sun 24 hs
Tel: 4371-7263
www.afullspa.com

Unikus -  Gay Sauna
Pueyrredon 1180
Lun a Vie 12:30 a 00:00
Mon to Fri 12:30 to 00:00
Sab y Dom 13:00 a 3:00
Sat & Sun 13:00 to 3:00
Tel: 4961-7792

Olimpo New • Gay Sauna Buenos Aires
Viamonte 723 (subsuelo)
Tel: 4322-6465